I've heard stories for years from friends and acquaintances about their legendary party days and the epic hangovers they suffered. I always felt a smug self-satisfaction that while I had no legendary party stories, I also had never had a hangover.
No longer.
Saturday night (June 25) I attended a deelightful celebration of a
darling dancing diva and chocolatier extraordinaire from our community. She rented a
hookah bar in Dallas; loaded the place up with dancers, friends, and chocolate; hired a band and a henna artist; and we BYOB'd her birthday into the ground!
At most BYOB functions, I generally bring a container of some sort of cocktail to share. I am very picky about wine and don't enjoy many beers, so I mix up what I like and (have been told) I have a gift for making mellow-tasting but powerful drinks. It was never my goal to get me or my cohorts drunk but I am a foodie so it just makes sense to make the best-tasting cocktails you can out of high-quality liquors and fresh ingredients. My Watermelon Martini is deceptive: fresh, sweet, and lethal. On Saturday I decided to take a batch of
Cape Codders. Nothing complex: cranberry juice cocktail,
Monopolowa potato vodka, and lime wedges.

At the hookah bar, The Hubbinator, my Bestest Bestie and I shared a lemonade hookah, which was a bright and delightful flavor and, once we fixed the initial char from the overfilled bowl, lasted us the rest of the night! I got some henna done on my hand, which turned out beautifully and has made me spend many hours daydreaming of a permanent henna pattern tattooed on my feet. We sampled some
amazing chocolates and watched beautiful dancers. An Outstanding Evening. Heck, we were even home and in bed before 1:00 am, which is nearly unheard of when we head to Dallas for the evening.
At about 5:30 am, I woke up for a potty break and thought,
Huh... I don't feel so good. I must be dehydrated. So I took care of business, drank a little water, and went back to bed. At 7:30 am, I woke up and thought,
Wow. I really don't feel so good. No headache, just nausea and general malaise. Again, I thought dehydration and had a little water before getting back in bed.
The thing to understand here is that I refuse to throw up. It is an act of supreme will to force my roiling stomach to submit to my desire to maintain the traditional one-way flow of my digestive tract. Rarely, my stomach wins.
WARNING: GRAPHIC (but funny) CONTENTS TO FOLLOW
When I was little, my mother taught my sister and I to sit on the toilet and hold a garbage can in front because by the time I accept the circumstances and finally allow
emesis, the pressure has built up and my guts wrench so hard that expulsion occurs at both ends. Mom is a very smart lady.
As an adult, I have ensured that every bathroom has a solid plastic garbage can with a liner (generally in the form of a grocery store plastic bag) that can be easily yanked and discarded, leaving an easily-cleaned container at the sick person's disposal.
I went in, sat down, and hugged my precious blue plastic pail as though it was the last Care Bear during a Christmas rush in the mid-1980s. My body gave me all my classic symptoms: cold chills, sweaty upper lip, and uncontrollable drooling. And for ten gut-wrenching minutes I fought it. Why do I fight it?
I. Don't. Know.Then my stomach pulled a bait-n-switch: the nausea suddenly passed and there was a slight tickle in my throat. This is the point in the movie when people start yelling at the television, "NO, DON'T OPEN THAT DOOR!" I took a breath, cleared my throat, coughed softly, and the floodgates opened. I heaved like I was trying to get a piano up to a 5th-floor walk-up on the lower east side. And for all that suffering, all I rid my body of was a half-cup of water and a little foam.
GROSSOUT ENDED
So I got sick. It was the first time I had been sick since a trip back from a weekend in Austin when we stopped at the Elite Cafe in Waco and I got sick from the chicken fried steak.
I digress.
So in my post-puke euphoria, I decided to continue with my standard Sunday morning routine of grocery shopping followed by laundry. I had been in contact with my friend and troupemate Michelle so she knew I had been sick. I told her I was ready to shop. She asked, "Are you sure you are up for it?" I drove to her house and she got in the van, "Are you SURE you are up for this? We can go later. We can go tomorrow."
"No, no, I'm okay. I need to shop. I need to stick to my routine."
She didn't say anything but I know she was thinking,
NO, YOU DON'T!So we drove to our favorite Kroger and walked in the store. My guts were swimming and telling me,
Hey, blondie! You should listen to your friend. To which I responded,
Shut up. We are already here. I'll get you some water.Our standard Sunday is to go to the store, get a tasty beverage from Starbucks, and casually shop in a near-empty store while the rest of town sleeps in or goes to church. I usually get a fat-free chai latte (hot or cold) and she gets a coffee creation. Then off to the deli counter, produce, dairy, etc. I knew there was no way I could consume a dairy-filled drink while I felt so badly so I went with water. We moseyed over to the deli counter, placed our order, and then I looked at Michelle, "Be right back."
The nausea had hit hard and quick and with great care and purpose I crossed the ENTIRE STORE to get to the only bathroom. I eyed every container for over 100 yards, thinking repeatedly,
If I throw up in that, I can never shop here again. I looked at the garbage can by Starbucks, the empty pot in the floral section, heck, I even gave the DVD display a glance. About halfway across the store I started drooling uncontrollably. About 3/4 across the store I stopped swallowing because it was making things worse. I managed to get into the restroom, give a wan smile to the lady washing her hands, get into the big stall, and spit the drool into the toilet.
Then I don't really know what happened. The nausea passed. I don't know if it was smell of water or the lack of any other strong smells but suddenly I was okay. I didn't trust it and stood around for a couple of minutes but I was fine. Confused but happy to have defeated the dyspepsia, I walked back to the deli section, where Michelle was accepting our baggies of lunch meats. She looked expectantly at me and I told her, "Well, I didn't get sick but that was a heck of a false alarm."
We made it through the rest of the store without incident. I held my breath and power walked down the laundry detergent aisle because I had figured out strong smells were a huge trigger. I stayed at the end of the baking aisle while she got what she needed because the smell of the molasses in the brown sugar was like a physical barrier.
While heading out of the store, I had one last false alarm trip to the restroom but nothing like the first one. Michelle loaded the car while she waited for me and told me, "I wish I could do something to help you." I replied that she already had by loading the car. It was the best thing she possibly could have done.
I drove back to her house to drop her off, and then drove back to my place. I sat in the car with the AC off for a minute and just enjoyed the stillness. Then I heaved my carcass back into the house, handed The Hubbinator my keys and said, "Will you please unload the van? I'm gonna go throw up again."
He looked a little confused, I think. I'm not really sure. I got to the bedroom, lay on the bed, and concentrated on breathing while I thought,
Well, I made it to the 2nd half of my 30s before doing this to myself. does that mean I am getting dumber? Maybe my body just couldn't take the chocolate on top of cocktails on top of hookah. Too much hookah. That's it. Too much hookah. The hookah was good. Lemonade was a great flavor. I like lemonade. I should make some lemonade. No, no, too much sugar. No sugar. No sugar today. maybe ever. oh hey... now i have an epic story... hookah is a funny word. hoooooo-kuh. And eventually fell asleep.
Four hours later I awoke feeling human again. I managed to eat a grilled cheese sandwich and felt even better. Several theories have been bantered about debating why I got so sick. All I know is I hope it Never Happens Again.